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Peacock: to dress in a flashy and colorful way in order to draw attention from women. Examples: bright shiny shirts, light-up jewelry, or colorful cowboy hats.

Group Theory: beautiful women are usually accompanied by friends. After approaching the group, you must simultaneously win the approval of her friends — especially the men — while actively demonstrating a lack of interest in her. The 3-Second Rule: a woman should be approached within three seconds of first seeing her. Smile when you enter a room. As soon as you walk in a club, the game is on. Besides confidence and a smile, the other characteristics of an alpha male are being well-groomed , possessing a sense of humor , connecting with people , and being seen as the social center of a room.

Never approach a woman from behind. Speak over your shoulder so it looks like you might walk away at any minute. Learn about her first and let her earn the right to be hit on. An amateur hits on a woman right away. A pro waits eight to ten minutes. One of the most important things to do with an attractive woman is to demonstrate value.

What makes you any different from the last twenty guys who approached her? A PUA must make a woman comfortable enough to give him her number. Phase-Shift: to make the transition, during a one-on-one conversation with a woman, from ordinary calk to slower, sexually-charged talk, touch, or body language; intended to precede an attempt to kiss.

And by waiting, they miss out. Interrogation is not seduction. Seduction is the art of setting the stage for two people to choose to reveal themselves to each other. Talking in statement form is the way old friends speak to each other.

Statements are the mode of the intimate, the confident, and the giving. To make someone want something, you need to give value. You show that others like it. You make it scarce. And you make them work for it. Never give a woman a straight answer to a question. Chick-crack: most women respond to routines involving tests, psychological games, fortune-telling, and cold-reading.

Otherwise, they will keep their attention on you. The Lying Game: a woman thinks of four true statements and one lie about her house or her car. Then she says them out loud one by one. You can spot the lie by looking for a variation in her eye movements. You have to be your best self. Laughter is often the best seduction. Everything that was funny at age ten is funny all over again.

As such, every part of the pickup is designed simply to anticipate and disarm objections. How do we get rid of him? As you interact, pay attention to the people who seem most likely to shut you out-the jealous men and overprotective friends. Make them feel good about themselves as you challenge, tease, and neg the target.

Is she always like that? How do you deal with her? This is called a push-pull. Push-Pull: a technique used to create or increase attraction, in which a man gives a woman indications that he is not interested in her followed by indications that he is. After the opening interaction, demonstrate value. Then pretend like you have to get back to your friends. You are in. Day 17 When you go out today to experiment with your new persona, remember, there is no such thing as rejection.

Only feedback. In your case, almost certainly negative feedback. Bear in mind that women are very shallow and are only attracted to status. So rather than telling them you're unemployed, it's much better to pretend that you are a Premiership footballer. It is also good to practise using a disqualifier. It's a great way of lowering the guard of women who are constantly being hit on by morons like you.

Try something like, "I expect you want to bonk my brains out, but you can't as tonight I'm shagging Angelina Jolie. Day 24 Now that you have lied your way to getting a woman's telephone number, you need to set yourself apart from all the other tossers who have read this book and are using the same pick-up lines. So now you need to differentiate yourself a little more by establishing some kind of empathic rapport through your compelling conversation.

This is not quite as difficult for sociopaths as it might sound. All you need is to read a copy of Cosmopolitan and ask feminine questions, such as, "When are you next having your moustache waxed? Day 30 This is it. The big day. The day you get laid. Look at yourself in the mirror and repeat 50 times, "I am a sex god," before meeting the woman you have conned or bullied into a date.

Now get her as pissed as possible, but be prepared to reframe the situation when she tells you to "get your hands off me, you filthy perv". What this actually means is that she wants you to snog her and tell her you love her.

Once you've done this, you are free to grab her arse again. That's about it. Except I'm contracted to write another 20, words so the publisher has suggested I come up with 11 arbitrary pick-up rules with pretentious names, such as "Whatever is in the way is the way" and "No man wins the game alone" but which are basically an excuse for me to tell you some of my shagging stories. So there was this year-old woman with a colostomy bag. She was really grateful.

Then there was the time I had a threesome with two sisters, straight after a foursome with three well-stacked babes in Las Vegas.